खुशियाँ ख़रीदनी है??


मुझे पीके फिल्म का एक सीन याद आया |
अनुष्का: तुम रहते कहा हो?
पीके : वैसे तो हम कहीं भी रह लेता हू पर आज कल बरसात बहुत हो रही है इसीलिए पोलीस स्टेशन में चेक इन कर लेता हूँ|

जी हाँ | यही है वो बंदा जिसने खुशियाँ खरीदी हैं| पैसो से नही, अपनी सूझबूझ और ज़िद से| 

बड़ी भा गयी मुझे यह बात| सोने के लिए ठिकाना नहीं पर अपनी चालाकी से सारी बात हॅंडल कर ली| 
सचमुच, आजकल शहरो मे एक बीघा ज़मीन भी लोगो को नसीब नही होती| लोग जहाँ कहीं जगह मिले वहीं रह लेते हैं| जो कुछ भी मिले वह खा लेते हैं| पर ये तो हालत से अड्जस्टमेंट है.. क्यू ना इस हालत को एंजाय्मेंट बनाया जाए ! हमारे रोजमर्रा के कामो मे भी हम अड्जस्टमेंट ही कर लेते हैं, क्यू ना इसे एंजाय्मेंट क तौर पर देखा जाए..|जी हाँ , ये  हो सकता है| 
 तारक मेहता कहते हैं, प्रॉब्लम्स तो हैं सब के साथ, केवल नज़रिए की है बात! 
बिल्कुल यही सोच हम रखे , अपना नज़रिया बदले | आज मे खुशी से जिए, कल की और आशावादी रहकर, तो हम सारी मंजिले पा सकते हैं| रिमेंबर दा सीक्रेट, जो आप सोचते हैं , वैसा ही आपके साथ होने लगता है| सोच बदलो, आपकी दुनिया बदलेगी |

Answer this..

Time has come to introspect. A simple question for you, see if you can answer this.

Did they bring you up to see this day?

Tons of questions might be striking your mind. Who are those addressed in the above question? Which day? Who saw it?

Surely you will get the answers. But let’s first peep into an incident I came across.

On this New Year day, we had visited a special place. People over there were very kind. One was a person who could play the mouth organ, believe me; it was very pleasant to listen. He made us feel awesome with his songs. Even there was a lady with a heart-throbbing voice. She stole our hearts with her voice. Along with these, there was a lady with a highly patriotic heart. She was fond of telling stories related to Maharashtra freedom struggle of 1960. Along with these, there were many such people who were showering their blessings up on our group of friends. The smiles on their faces due to us were wonderful to watch.

Yes, the place we had visited was an Old age home. There were around 24 aged people living their lives without their family. Even the smiles on their faces could not hide the loneliness in their eyes. Their hearts were full of feelings to express, blessings to shower up on and experiences to share. However, they did not have any person to do all above things. I still remember, the voice of lady described earlier. Her expressions showed that she might have sung many lullabies to make her children sleep. But what about today’s situation, when she needs someone to appreciate her trembling voice, listen to her?  Parents do all things for their children expecting only the progress of their children. But what happens to same children when it comes to them?

I hope now you might have got the answers to the above questions. But the real question remains intact,

Did they bring you up to see this day?

If you really can’t answer this, think twice about their contribution in your life. 

My travelling experience…

                 Once I was on my trip to Kachchh, Gujarat. It was two day travel duration from my place to Bhuj. I was wondering about what would be my pastime during these days. The obvious ones were reading some magazine or a book. But what I discovered made me to think a while about it. Actually the finding was an abject situation. A poor little child was asking me for a few bucks. I found myself in a miserable condition wherein my mind was thinking for a while for it. Later on my mother suggested me to give him some food. Well, being Gujjus, we always carry lots of delicious stuff with us. I gave him the same and he left with a smile on his face.

                Well,on the whole route I was wondering about the reason which made me wait for a moment while he was asking for the money. I learned that it was my conscience which had put me in that situation. Well I pondered why I should think twice before giving few bucks to the poor when I usually don’t while spending few extra ones to get the tickets of any movie on a Sunday or spending some extra ones while swiping the cards in malls. Well the answer from my heart was I shouldn't have thought before giving it to him.

               At the same moment my mind interrupted me and made me aware of the other condition that was prevailing. It said the person might use the given money in any depraved manner. The way I use money is always known to me but when I give it to anyone who knows how he will use it. I will never want my money to go in wrong hands and used in an evil fashion. Well, these days even the small children do smoke and drink. This was the only reason which made me think a while.

                But as always my mother took me out of this condition. From this I concluded that whenever there is the question whether to listen of ‘the loving heart’ or of ‘the thinking brain’ we should find the golden mean of both. This will help us to overcome each challenging situation in life. Well the other thing that I discovered too was whenever you are in distress; usage of food brings you out from it.:)

               Well, these conclusions along with positive attitude towards life still help me to deal with every troublesome condition I face in my life.